it's not enough, is it?

HE
Wittgenstein
Family
Immanuel Kant
Relationship
Listening to music at home only
Philosophy
Theory of literature
Seriousness
Lou Reed Children
Future

COMMON ELEMENT
Beer

SHE
Cooking
Skateboards
Iggy
Now
Holocaust
Partying
Julia Child
No commitments
Concerts
Irvine Welsh
Being silly
Bowie
PS3
Flesh tunnels